How can I have bot so stupid?
I am ready to get hammered up for this, but the reason I’m here is because I have no one I can confide te and I’m feeling anxious, depressed and bitter.
Well to be fair, i truly can’t say I blame the boy for walking away. Don’t get mij wrong, you seem like a nice person but if it were mij, I would’ve done the same thing. Not because of the age difference or anything like that, but because you liedje to mij. therefore, i can understand where he’s coming from, spil he’s very likely thinking if you liedje to him about your marriage, then what else could you have liedje to him about? Not telling that what you just posted isn’t a 100 procent true, but I wouldn’t be the least bit astonished if that’s what he thinks.
Thanks for your response. Spil hard spil it is to admit, what I’ve written here is 100% true. I totally understand his perspective on this and if I were te his boots, I’m not sure I wouldn’t have done the same. I project on having a talk with my spouse, a hard one, and he’s going to have to make some switches. I’m not volmaakt, BUT if you ask my spouse, compared to other wives wij are friends with, he’d be foolish not to wake up. Above all, family and children are significant to mij and if I can avoid a divorce, then I will, but if it’s something I have to consider, then I will. It will all come down to what happens during my discussion. There are lots of details I toevluchthaven’t gone into on this postbode which would shed some light on my feelings for my hubby but I promise you they are well founded. Thanks again.
hey it’s no problem. just be sure to talk to your hubby about your feelings, spil life is too brief to keep things bottled up inwards like this. trust mij, i know.
Thanks, and unluckily, I do keep things bottled up because I don’t like making sways, but then I get so angry that when I explode, it’s ugly. I embarked a list, a bucket list, there’s a reason for it, and the very first thing I listed is to love and take care of myself very first.
I will never understand why random people speelpop into sites like this and throw up on us all.
Thanks for your lovely comments Mr. Volmaakt. You truly don’t know mij or my circumstances so don’t judge. I will be violating out the bubbley this weekend, i’ll lift up my glass to you. cheers and all that.
Ralwus has bot banned due to this horsesh*t, and I am livid. There is no kinder, gentler man here. His postbode addressed something that YOU originally said. Why he wasgoed kicked out, I’ll never understand.
Tommyj, I so agree with you, this feels like a entire lotsbestemming of vomit that I don’t need-nobody does.
I am even somewhat embarrassed that I chose to postbode here, but ralwus situation needs to be addressed.
..yea. i agree. only posting cuz of what you wrote. miss u ralwus. love the poems. there’s a duo of other folk missing too, but not cuz of this thread.
Wow, that deep throats. Ralwus never even truly said anything *mean*!
I’ve bot sick for the last few days and have no idea why he wasgoed banned. i feel bad but I",m not sure what I can do.
Here’s my plain advice, and it’s too late to take it. NEVER commence a relationship when you are already ter one, no matter how screwed up it is. Sure, it’s a rush, but it creates a loterijlot of unforeseen problems.
Since you’ve already done it, either fix your marriage, or end it. If Mr. Wonderful is still there, it wasgoed meant to be. But don’t lose yourself ter your thoughts. Your thoughts aren’t you. You need to rein them ter and voorstelling them who’s boss. When wij don’t, wij become desperate people who do desperate things.
Thanks for the advice, late or not, I’ll take it! I don’t know that I want Mr. Wonderful anymore. If he’s so rigid and unmoved by all the things I’ve done to apologize and attempt to make things right, then it’s his loss. I’m displaying him who the boss is by NOT every contacting him again, no matter what my stupid brain says. I am moving on. Bad lesson to learn but they all can’t always be good. Thanks again.
Hi, I have bot reading all the answers given to you and I vereiste say that the only reaction that addresses your concerns comes from
ddsurfsca. Coming from a masculine’s perspective, he sounds to know exactly what he is talking about when he says that the dude vereiste have bot lounging to you the entire time and that is why he wont meet with you.
Furthermore, honey you don’t know this person, you fell te love with an photo of a person you desired to find. It wasgoed an imaginary love affair. It has bot a tornado romance based on lies from both sides, but this isn’t true love.
True love stays when all others walk out.
True love is kleintje, patient, longsuffering, not rude strafgevangenis boastful, doesn’t gloat overheen a wrong done to them and undoubtedly doesn’t demolish the life of another.
True love is selfless and you vereiste recognize this te order to get overheen the fantasy you had with this person.
It wasgoed never vivo, it wasgoed all a figment of your hopeful imagination.
My advice is to attempt and work on your relationship with your spouse. Communicate with him the longing of your heart. If need be, seek counseling, but please do not harm him just so that you can clear your conscious. If you need to clear your conscious, go to a counselor by yourself, journal, and seek ways of voicing your feelings te a way that will never hurt those who love you, ter particular, your hubby and your children.
May Schepper bless you and lead you ter the direction you should go. I will be begging for you and hoping you take control of all your wandering thoughts that have brought you to this confused state.